Love is a beautiful gift that many people search for a lifetime to experience. However, the hardship and disappointment in relationships and marriage lead them down roads that stymie their ability to attain love. The fame comedian Steve Harvey wrote the book ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN, and his book and movie did not prove why women should think like men. However, it revealed the obvious, that when women tried to think like men, they lost their individuality and wisdom, which invigorate their quality. This book is not a direct attack on the validity of the fame comedian; however, it is Raymond Sturgis continuation of the conversation, why should women think like men?