This insightful guide full of expert advice and anecdotes to help you navigate that confusing time after "just dating" and before "I do." You've been dating for more than a year. You talk on the phone with his parents. You go on vacations with each other's families. And yet, you're still left wondering: "Where is this going?" If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. While no one needs to rush into marriage, many women find themselves in the seemingly endless state of being a little bit married. In this practical, no-holds-barred guide, Hannah Seligson delivers an eye-opening look at why serial long-term relationships have become the new romantic rite of passage. From making life-changing sacrifices for your partner to dealing with doubts, Seligson explains how to make the most of this ambiguous situation, including: • What are the signs that your partner is ready for long-term commitment? • How do you make decisions about careers, cohabitation, and religion when there isn't a ring? • What's the best way to mention the "M" word to a commitment-phobe? • How long should you stay A Little Bit Married before tying the knot . . . or moving on?