This book is a guide for young and not so young men who are undecided about their sexuality. It is not a reference book nor a scientific study and must not be considered as such. It is the thoughts and guidance of a gay man to those who are undecided as to whether they are gay or not and does not try and influence your thoughts into being gay; more, it is a guide to what it is to be gay and leaves the decision to you and only you.