Ginger Emas thought the best thing about getting married was that she would never have to go on a first date again. Then she got divorced. Two years and eighty-seven dates later, she brings us Back On Top —sharing practical tips, tales from the trenches, and a healthy dose of comical commiseration. Back on Top reveals today's new rules and dating dilemmas; the secrets of online profiles, speed dating, and lock-and-key parties; the truth about Internet intimacy; what to wear on your first date, and when to take it off. The book arms women with dating checklists, man must-haves and red flags even a queen of denial can't miss. With hilarious real-life help from dating survivor Ginger Emas, divorced women everywhere will not only be back on top, it will become their favorite position.