Readers gain insights to break free from toxic relationship patterns and learn how to use the formula AIR - Awareness, Intentionality, and Risks, to get unstuck Shows readers how to recognize relationship dances (patterns) developed from family of origin and become aware of the template of their choices in romantic partners Teaches how to become shame resilient for an authentic journey Increases Awareness of developmental stages for self-compassion, Intentionality to turn regrets into life lessons, and Risks saying “yes” to divine invitations for transformation toward authenticity Shows readers unconventional ways to meet God through relationship messes Exposes vulnerable scenes of divine invitations from Judy Herman’s personal story Identifies attitudes that doom marriages Provides resources for healthy relationships