This just in … dating after 40 is not easy. Online dating after 40 is even harder. It's been two years since my husband passed away. Two years since my world was turned upside down. I've tried dating. I've tried new hobbies. I've even tried yoga. I have failed at them all. That's why I'm hanging up my dating shoes and focusing on what I really love in life – books, wine, and cupcakes. Life's too short to not choose the cake. Then I met Dillon. Sexy and Irish, he sets my pulse racing and my puts a smile on my face. This may not have been the life I planned, but it's my life rewritten.