No bilateral relationship in modern history has been more consistently shaped by what each side could not — or refused to — see in the other. Since at least the 1940s, American thinking about Iran has carried an ingrained paternalism: a well-intentioned but deeply condescending impulse to bring Western liberal values to the Persian people, described by historian Bruce Kuniholm as altruism that "nicely coincided with self-interest". Iran, meanwhile, read every American overture through the long shadow of 1953 — the CIA-backed coup that dismantled Mohammad Mosaddegh's democratically elected government to protect oil interests and Cold War strategy. Neither perception was entirely wrong. Neither was sufficient. Mirrors Turned Away traces how these mutually distorted images calcified into policy. It examines Washington's stunning failure to anticipate the 1979 Revolution — described in declassified records as unfolding "amid a fog of incomprehension at top levels" — and the 444 days of the hostage crisis, which Americans read as pure nihilism and Iranians understood as a rational, if extreme, act of political self-defense. It follows the decades of missed openings that followed: the Reagan era's refusal to acknowledge Iran's back-channel signals, the Bush administration's severing of operational channels after 9/11 against the advice of its own ambassadors, and the persistent American failure to recognize that Iranian political culture is anchored not in the future, but in a civilizational memory that stretches back millennia. Cultural misperception, this book argues, is not merely a diplomatic failure. It is an active force — one that manufactures enemies, forecloses negotiations, and substitutes the image of a people for the people themselves. Between Washington and Tehran, the mirrors have faced away from each other for over seventy years. The cost has been paid by both nations, and by everyone caught between them.