The Mother of the Bride's Essential Guide You may be producing the largest party of your life, so here's the magic formula that allows you to remain sane and sensible, both during the planning process and on the great day itself. Professional event planner and wedding day veteran Sherri Goodall guides you through it all, including: Advice to save your sanity The Ten Commandments for the Mother of the Groom Checklists and tips, plus a bonus section of Really Useful Tips! Worksheets for budgeting and organizing it all Know the secrets of: When to speak up, when not to Surviving the guest list Staying on good terms with the bride