"Self-Respect: The Solution to Unsolvable Problems" recognizes that we all live together on this world and we have individual ways of negotiating life in a manner we find satisfying. Finding the balance between what we want for ourselves and what we're willing to pay for it and what we expect others to want for themselves and what they would pay for it is the key to everything. Love's nature is imperfect in human terms, but it accepts everyone has to draw limits as we all work through the requirements of common sense and individual needs.