*From inside the book* Kiss on the first date? At the end of the first date, do you kiss her or do you not kiss her? No. Exactly. You look at her eyes at the end of the first date. You end the first dates the same way and I’ve been doing this for 25 years. My first time of doing this I was nervous. So I was really, I didn’t know what to do. At the end of the date, you looked at her and you make a direct eye contact. You DO NOT hesitate. You DO NOT blink at all. You stare directly in her eyes and you basically tell her, that “Tonite was fun, I enjoyed getting to know you”. And you looked at her confidently, you do not wavier. Put some thoughts into your dates She wants to see the finish product and this is the formula that I do when it comes down to dates all the time. That why I enjoyed dating so much. It’s so much fun. Never ever take her to the movies on the first three dates. Never, ever take them to a comedy club. unless, you’re ready to sit on the first row and get ripped and show her that you got yourself self defabricating humor. Never take her out on an expensive dinner for the first date ever. Unless you want to see her chew and spew bullshit at you. Never take her to a Starbucks. Oh, awful dates. If you’re going to do the Coffee Shops, find the hippest and cool coffee shop. Don’t take her to Starbucks.