Understanding Men with Power Women have been told time and time again what to do and what rules to follow to get and keep a man. Understanding Men with Power offers women advice too, but after a lifetime of guiding people into successful relationships, Mercedes, the relationship guru, offers a different kind of help. She shows instead of tells women about the causes and effects of their treatment of men. Through true stories, each one concluding with a lesson readers can put into practice, Mercedes teaches women seeking relationship help that they are in charge. Understanding Men with Power empowers women. Men aren't the mystery--the mystery is why women haven't realized their power sooner. Get out there and seize love!