As the Pastor preached another demeaning Father's Day message I wanted to scream, "I would have been a better husband if I had a better wife!" Choosing a spouse from a field seeded with weeds is the dilemma most men of this current Western feminist culture experience. Feminism has made the juice not worth the squeeze and men are tired of taking all the blame. Humiliated, exhausted, demoralized and, hopeless husbands have come to their wits' end and given up on trying to please their spouses. They cry out to God for peace but find none in their home life. And at the end of all their suffering there she stands with the divorce papers. "Oh my God! alimony and child support will ruin me. Please God help me!"